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I met someone whom I fell in love with, he was much older than me. I am 47 he is 77. I met him and we fell in love the same day we met. I hugged him so hard he fell over. I then started finding out things about how he had a stroke, and 2 heart attacks. He was so good looking, yet so frail after just a couple hours of visting. He would fall asleep talking,eating,then started to fall down alot.I have worked as a nurse,and thought I couldhandle everything.I had no idea what a sad thing a cellerbellum brain stroke is. None. I fought with his daughter to have him here,it was a huge fight.He is a well known celebrity,with no money though. He was famous in the 70's.Still is, but has nothing to show for it at all. I mean, we were counting chnage for food at one time. I loved him for him, not money or anything else, I just feel like I was bamboozeled by people not telling me how bad off he was, or even him telling me alittle about his disabilities. I later found out he had no money for food. I worked 3 jobs and nursed him and took care of my young son, who I get no money from anyone for either.

I took him to the hospital several times,up most nights,then worked.Without a thank you, hardly anything.

He would go into rages,then be sweet and sorry. I felt so sorry for him.

I work as a fitness model, I have had no energy as of late,I did manage to work out today-I mean I have too -to keep my fitness job going,but I am so beyond sad.

A few days ago, he started to change his behaviour. Hiding things from me, and writing alot. I saw notes torn up. I had a mini melt down being i was so dang tired,up for a few  nights with him being he has restless leg syndrome and kicked me so hard I bled. Also he was so anxious, like a little boy at night.

Anyways he left,I heard the car start up and he was gone. Left me with all the bills, everything. Rent is so high here its outrageous.

words of support are so welcome.

I guess, I am upset because I was nursing him on hand and foot, literally-and got no thanks or appreciation and then he just abandoned ship.

I am now working 4 jobs and have a young son. I am so sad, depressed and upset its pathetic.

Thank you for reading me.

HI IAM JO I NORMALLY dont do this but i thought maybe i can take a chance iam a mother of two my oldest is 18 and my other one is 14 my oldest is away at school and my other one is living with me after 14 years my husband left me for someone else and since then ive been living paycheck to paycheck and it just seams like i cant get ahead ..i falling behind on my bills and always paying late fees i cant get any loans or buy a house cus of my credit score please help me if any one can .......just get ahead in life maybe enough just to be ahead on my bills if not its okay at least someone reads this .................but anyways thank you

Hi,

My name is Lois, I have 3 boys ages 13, 15, 17 and to grand daughters ages 1 and 2. At this moment we have no hot water or heat, my husband left and went back to texas so me and the kids must move next month because I can't pay the bills here, I can bearly buy food. Please if any one can help with clothes, food or whatever, it will make a world of difference to my family. Thank you and God Blessing be with you and upon you and your family.

thanks for your input

I  am a single mom in need of help. I need immediate financial help with my bills and rent . My husband has left and I don't know what to do.  I have a nice home furnished will loose it if I can not pay rent.  I would like to have a re;iable roomate to share home.  I lost my job 4 months ago just started back to work again.

I  am a single mom in need of help. I need immediate financial help with my bills and rent . My husband has left and I don't know what to do.  I have a nice home furnished will loose it if I can not pay rent.  I would like to have a re;iable roomate to share home.  I lost my job 4 months ago just started back to work again.

    I am a mother of 4. My husband has decided he is destined for greater things and has decided to leave. I have not worked in at least 8 years. I have no credit.  I am at a loss of what to do. My youngest child is 9 months old and I am still nursing.  I also have a toddler who has never been in a day care environment. I am afriad of what returning to work will do to my two youngest kids. Plus, My job skills are outdated. I have never had a resume. I just don't know where to begin. I do not know how I am gonna pay the rent and put food in the fridge. let alone pay for childcare and untilities. Please any advice on where to begin would be great. Thank you.